Paying the Debts of the Deceased – What You Don’t Know Could Cost You
Some debt collection agencies are taking their collection practices to new extremes when it comes to making a profit – collecting from the relatives of the deceased. In most states, the estate of the deceased is responsible for payment of any debts that are presented during the probate period. However, these debt collectors circumvent this process by going directly to the surviving spouse, children, parents or siblings, in an attempt to directly collect. Oftentimes, these individuals are not legally responsible for these debts, and the debt collectors typically do not disclose this fact. By assuming the debt of a relative who has died, these individuals potentially place themselves in a position of unnecessary financial risk.
How can you protect yourself from these predatory practices? There are a few simple guidelines to follow when dealing with creditors who are attempting to collect a debt from a deceased individual. Use these tips to deal with creditors, and if necessary, get legal advice for your particular situation.
Don’t discuss the debts of the deceased. This is likely the simplest solution, overall. Inform creditors who call that the individual they are calling for is deceased. Do not offer additional information, and do not allow the creditor to pressure you into making a payment. If you were not a joint account holder or otherwise responsible for the debt, there is no reason to communicate with the debt collector in most instances.
Don’t provide your personal information. This tip is also important, because if you provide your personal information to the debt collector, they may try to get you to assume the debt, thereby placing it on your credit report. This can have a negative impact on your overall credit, and it also makes it more difficult for you if you later decide that you do not want to handle your loved one’s old debts.
Don’t give in to pressure. If you know that you aren’t responsible for the debt, don’t succumb to creditor pressure to assume the payments. Unless the debt involves secured property that is of value to you or your family, there is no reason to negotiate over payments on a debt that you do not owe.
Do handle any debts on which you are a co-signer or are otherwise responsible. Find out the laws about credit card liability in your state – in many instances, the spouse is not responsible for credit card debt that is not part of a joint credit account. However, if you are jointly responsible for the debts in question, making arrangements sooner, rather than later, can help preserve your good credit.
If creditors are persistent in contacting you, you may want to get legal advice from a local attorney about how best to proceed. In most instances, if creditors do not make their claim during the probate process, they are out of luck – trying to collect from relatives not associated with the original account is a shady practice at best. Losing a loved one is difficult. Don’t let opportunistic creditors make an already difficult time that much worse – know your rights, and don’t offer to pay for any debts to which you are not contractually obligated.

